tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76237247264501745.post3819266044810199629..comments2023-07-05T14:03:30.657-04:00Comments on It's Just Hair: My Man- vs the massesUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76237247264501745.post-15175260263590494162010-09-08T15:13:55.075-04:002010-09-08T15:13:55.075-04:00very interesting post!!!! It's always go to he...very interesting post!!!! It's always go to hear about our natural hair from a man's perspective that truly understand US. LOVELY!!Heavenly Hummingbirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15130073682555761554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76237247264501745.post-36507614824504409282010-08-27T09:07:01.591-04:002010-08-27T09:07:01.591-04:00Thanks for this commentary! The entire time I was ...Thanks for this commentary! The entire time I was reading I was wondering where you vacationed, but when I saw Cape May, I wasn't surprised. No disrespect to NJ, but I am from South Jersey and some people act like Black people are aliens.Keeleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17793135866902854363noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76237247264501745.post-57004390761265119712010-08-24T23:47:02.155-04:002010-08-24T23:47:02.155-04:00You know we can wonder how long it will take other...You know we can wonder how long it will take other races to understand black hair but it's difficult when our men and women don't even understand it. Natural black hair meets the most confrontation from black men and women. Seriously, having a partner that can understand how difficult it is for a black person to be natural in such a critical world is quite a blessing. *finger snaps* GreatAlongCameStaceyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00028682522882458997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76237247264501745.post-34501730477898554972010-08-22T21:03:56.003-04:002010-08-22T21:03:56.003-04:00What a wonderful commentary!!!.Thank you for shari...What a wonderful commentary!!!.Thank you for sharing your views...its always good to get a man's prospective....Im sure you see this hair journey we women go through so differently now!coilymanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10059152227631700492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76237247264501745.post-67347688531798934542010-08-21T21:13:22.609-04:002010-08-21T21:13:22.609-04:00Where I live, white people stare at black people a...Where I live, white people stare at black people all the time, regardless of our hair texture or style. I completely relate to how annoying it is to be stared at like some type of exhibit. <br /><br />What was up with the white guy dismissing what Nisus had to say after she said her hair didn't take a lot of time? As if *he* knew better than she would about her own hair and how long it would Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76237247264501745.post-83959960012859323712010-08-20T11:06:30.506-04:002010-08-20T11:06:30.506-04:00Sorry, but I think I would be more offended if som...Sorry, but I think I would be more offended if someone whom I had just met made a random remark about how 'clean' or 'well spoken' I was, as if it's surprising or rare that a person of color could be that way. <br /><br />I can definitely understand how it would feel awkward to have people turning around and gawking at your hair, as if they thought they had just spotted an Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76237247264501745.post-49221077903761297512010-08-19T19:21:08.828-04:002010-08-19T19:21:08.828-04:00I really enjoyed reading this post. I have not had...I really enjoyed reading this post. I have not had quite as many comments, but I did have my boss tell me I had big crazy hair. (He is white and I am the only black woman in the office) I merely said thank you and we moved on. As more women embrace their curls maybe we won't be an anomoly. That said I, the post made me smile as I enjoyed having a black man's perspective. :)Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16278317412521264547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76237247264501745.post-227102429308833372010-08-17T14:40:23.360-04:002010-08-17T14:40:23.360-04:00Loved this post! It's so nice to see a black ...Loved this post! It's so nice to see a black man supportive of his woman's natural hair. I'm single, and so many times I've been asked if I think my being natural has anything to do with that. Uhhh, no! There are natural women with husbands & boyfriends. When my prince comes along, if he is the one, he will love me, kinks & all.discount divahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16010115528402411198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76237247264501745.post-17112447238125361152010-08-17T14:27:19.736-04:002010-08-17T14:27:19.736-04:00I enjoyed reading this post... black men blog?! h...I enjoyed reading this post... black men blog?! how long did it take you to do this?! (kidding) For real, though, this was well-said. It's great to get the male/boyfriend/husband perspective.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01463777019127956596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76237247264501745.post-37526578619594915632010-08-17T14:16:18.747-04:002010-08-17T14:16:18.747-04:00This perspective was really refreshing and honest!...This perspective was really refreshing and honest! Thanks for sharing, don't know too many boyfriends/husbands who would delve into such a heated topic. I love Nisus' hair, think it's beautiful in shape and texture, shame other folks can't equate this sense of beauty with ppl of color.Chaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06816175312216843515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-76237247264501745.post-29358755982700492642010-08-17T14:06:05.459-04:002010-08-17T14:06:05.459-04:00You said it well! I am glad you had a chance to ob...You said it well! I am glad you had a chance to observe what it means to walk in her shoes, or at least to wear her curls. I love supportive boyfriends/husbands. I'm smiles all day after this post :)Fleurztyhttp://www.textureplayground.com/blognoreply@blogger.com